Nakedness

It's interesting that no matter who we are nakedness is always subjective. In many European countries women often go topless at beaches and in commercials, that is considered normal there. Although, it should also be pointed out that only in America are breast considered something sexual. When I was a kid porn was not a thing yet. The best we could hope for in the 70's was when one of our dad's discarded and old Playboy magazine and we just happen to be lucky enough to fish it out of the dumpster before the trash man got to it. As humans we (and especially as young men) we were embarrassed by these actions. Although it should be pointed out in seriousness and in jest that God made us this way. When you looked at Miss January 1986 and you felt a warm sensation in your mid-section that isn't shameful; it's just God's plan. At least that's the way I see it.

Not so far from my home here in Broken Arrow in a little wide place in the road called Depew is a resort of sorts named "Oak Park Trails." On their sign it says, "Naturalist Park" and then these activities added: biking, camping, pool, and spa. This can only mean one thing, people who choose to air out their privates in public are every bit as bored as the rest of us. One would think that being naked in public would be enough recreation for one day, at least I do. In instances like these it's a good thing men's thoughts don't reside in a bubble over the top of their heads like in the comic strip blondie; if they did, we would probably all be in jail. I often hear other adults talking about doing what is often referred to as "spicing things up." But if the parameters of decency must be stretched that far in order to keep things interesting with our spouses maybe we just aren't doing it right. If a man cannot become exclusively interesting to his wife with a dimmer switch, a cup of coffee, and a crackling fire maybe there just any hope left for them. But one thing is true in life, there will always be extremes and those that want to partake in them. This is where I come into the picture. NO, I don't participate in such foolishness, but I love to laugh at those who do. Many people want to stamp out absurdity, but I don't. Were it not for absurdity I would run out of things to write about rather quickly.